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Sadhe Sati is the Live Journal identity of a girl named Amber Cody. Her Journal hosted a flagrant sexual harassment attack by Lima_PCP on a good friend of mine. She seemed to agree with the point, but when I added to the matter after I moved house she turned on me, thus; By beating a dead horse and commenting to him on a pretty dead post made almost two weeks ago, restarting the bickering, you are egging him on not to mention just annoying me. Things were relatively peaceful until someone decided to do this. If you haven't noticed, he finds it quite amusing to get a rise out of people. He's obviously not going to be the one to walk away from an argument, and try to be the better person. I covered this in the article on him, but Jeremy only exists to get a rise out of people, and I will always fight people like that. Why? Because they are bullies, and I will not be dictated to by a bully. I couldn't believe Amber would allow a proven bully to stay on her LJ. It's inexplicable - and it also prevents LJ from taking action because they have a way to pass the buck. Everyone is above a bully - we all know that. Bullies are cowards. But I can guarantee you that if you ignore him he'll get quite bored after a while and not bother you anymore. He's not the type of psycho who's going to go out of his way and stalk you. He'll merely find someone else to argue with. Amber says that like it's a good thing. It's not - it's bad thing. He won't shut up unless he is told by someone in authority to shut up. He'll continue to upset and abuse people. That's wrong, and someone should have the courage to stand up to that and take the appropriate action. In Amber's case that means removing Jeremy from her LJ and keeping it that way. She then made a comment that said to me in blazing lights that she was in bed with Lima_PCP. And that started a yo yo between her LJ and my old Blogspot blog. I wanted to drop the subject as far as the blog was concerned, but events on Amber's LJ forced my hand. This is what I posted on my Blogspot blog on September 30, 2005; I've been thinking about everything that has happened. That bastard Jeremy sexually harrassing Melissa, and discriminating against me (and bullying me) and LJ doing nothing about it. And Amber doing nothing about it either, and turning on me in such a way that I just can not understand. The only explanation that makes sense is the one that I've already given - she's back in bed with him. Amber can deny that all she wants, it's the only rational explanation as to why she won't throw Jeremy off her LJ for what he did - at the very least to Mel as they are supposed to be friends. Friends should look after each other. To be mocked in a way for taking the Internet seriously is highly offensive to me. The reality is that the Internet is pretty much all I have to socialise with. What I have IRL isn't enough. That's Aspergers Syndrome at work. It applies for every Aspie, not just me - so we are heavily reliant on the Net to meet people. And we are just as reliant on the powers that be (such as LJ abuse and owners of forums, journals, blogs etc) to do their job and protect people who have such restrictions. The only place that seems to be 100 percent safe for me right now is my own forum - and even that is a chore because of Ayling and Millar forcing me to stop accepting new members for now. I have the solution in preparation, but it's taking a long time to set it up. The general advice for dealing with situations like this is to just walk away. It applies to both the Internet and IRL. The trouble is when one is socially restricted, that becomes a very hard thing to do. To just walk away from an option to find friends when your options are inherently limited is a proposition that borders on the ridiculous. If this was real life, it would be akin to forcing yourself to just stay at home and don't go out. I know how dangerous such a thought pattern can be - but that is exactly what has happened on LJ, and is threatening to happen here. And who gives a hoot? Amber doesn't. Neither does LJ. Jeremy doesn't either, but then he's an idiot anyway (cast iron Dubya supporters usually are) so he's easy to deal with. But Amber and LJ are not. It's hard when I feel out of a keen sense of justice that it's neccessary to check back on Amber's LJ. I don't bother with Jeremy's - I've only looked at that once and that was awhile ago. The last message I posted was on Fireuzer's and that was also awhile back. It doesn't help when I have to make this blog public because of the link to my website - and I find out that even though I've banned Amber and Jeremy from commenting here, I can't stop them from looking. It creates a no win situation. The one thing I CAN laugh at though is the assertion that I've been posting anonymously and pretending I'm someone else. Where on earth did they get that idea from? Must be someone else bagging Bush. But it's a sad state of affairs when Amber turns around and does the same thing all discriminators - assume that my inferior social skills are an indicator level for intellect. That's a typical response from someone who has taken the usual line of "I don't understand you, therefore you are mad". Very lazy, and worthy of contempt. I just wish I had a logical and rational explanation for all of this, so I could get some closure and be able to move on as certainly LJ expect me to. All this just makes me start thinking thoughts that frankly scare the crap out of me. If people won't do the right thing, I should make them. And viciously. But that's terrorist talk, and that's why it scares me. I've already done the wrong thing IRL once - and once was more than enough. (I'm willing to put money on this - that bitch Amber posting a response to this on her LJ and accusing me of having a whine. You don't have Aspergers, little girl, so you have no right to say anything about it - except "I'm sorry") Well I was right - the foolish girl responded and here was my response to that; Because if
you look at the threads chronologically they make it quite clear that BOTH
SIDES WERE JUST AS MUCH AT FAULT AS THE OTHER and the insults actually
started with your side. Wrong! They started with Jeremy's insults of Mel, and I came in the help back her up - at her suggestion BTW! You can
disagree with someone and challenge their opinion without attacking them,
and that's all he was doing at first until the insults started. His challenges were ALL attacks from the first breath. And denials. Your's were
just as innapropriate as his were! Does that make what he said okay? NO!
But you can't claim that you are completely innocent and that he just
started attacking you out of nowhere! I never claimed innocence, but I do claim self defence! And he DID attack me out of nowhere, completely unprovoked. Anything I did wrong - or Mel for that matter - was PROVOKED! I'm being
objective. BS And y'know
what? Jeremy isn't bothering you anymore! Yes he is, because I don't have closure for what he said to me, and until I do it will continue to bother me. I already explained my keen sense of justice. Do you think that I would be happy for him to treat someone else the way he's treated Mel and myself when we've had the chance to punish him? If he did
start directly attacking you or Mel again, through my LJ, I would ban him.
He did, and you didn't. Enough said. Your
"rational" explanation is not rational at all. It's actually quite
IRrational and you're basing your conclusion on something that YOU want to
believe because if I were "back in bed" with him then I would obviously be
taking sides with him (which I'm not) because I have a bias for him and
you obviously did NOTHING wrong! And you're wrong. I've been there, done
that, learned my lesson - won't do it again! He's my EX boyfriend for a
reason. Christ, I haven't even seen him in MONTHS and I'm currently with
someone who makes me far more happy. I don't believe you. And do not accuse me of irrational thinking. You are siding with a sexual harrasser and discriminator, and no reasonable person would do that unless they had a personal interest in the person responsible (Jeremy). I'm not
basing my "lack of intellect" conclusion on your having Asperger's - I'm
basing it on the fact that you cannot seem to listen to simple reason!
Listening to reason has nothing to do with your "social skills." That just goes to show how little you understand about Aspergers. You are, and don't deny it. You aren't demonstrating any attempt at simple reason that I can follow. And that is a social situation and you are treating it like an intellectual one - I stand by what I said. I've read
your web site. You annoy me greatly, Phil. I'm sorry, but you do, I'm not
going to pretend that you don't, especially having the psychiatric
problems that I have. You further reinforce the stereotype that everyone
with a psychiatric disorder is a whiny little bitch who uses their
disorder as an excuse for everything and quite frankly I don't appreciate
the stigma that I get from people because of people like you. I would
expect this from maybe a 15 or 16 year old, but someone who is 40? What
the [beep!]? So why don't you fight for it? Fight for the right to be yourself instead of a slave to people who don't understand. Those are the people who hold us back - and you should be showing some support for fighting for what I believe to be right, not playing the game that most disabled people like those with Aspergers can not. If that annoys you, then that is a disgrace and shows yet again that you don't understand. And no, I
don't have asperger's, but I can tell you what I do have! Oh, where do I
begin? I'll even LINK the descriptions for you! Bipolar I Disorder with
rapid cycling (and mixed episodes! SO FUN!), Social Anxiety Disorder,
Borderline Personality Disorder, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder...And I'm
a former bulimic who still flirts with the disorder at times! And those
are just the things I've been diagnosed with in my...oh, five or six years
of going to doctors trying to figure out what the [beep!] is wrong with
me. Those links, of course, are summaries, and don't nearly do the
disorders justice. Now you are the one making excuses and whining. I'm not giving you any sympathy because your behaviour is in fact re-enforcing the very stereotype you claimed annoyed you. That makes you a hypocrite. Bipolar doesn't excuse your lack of action, even though it just might explain it partly. But only because you're playing the "normal" person's game. But do you
see me whining that anyone who doesn't make exceptions for me, or is the
slightest bit mean to me for something completely unrelated to my
disorder, is discriminating against me? NO! Now that remark again demonstrated how little you understand. The attacks by Jeremy WERE at Aspergers - it was all about my social restrictions, and mocking them. Even adding that pathetic link to Encyclopedia Dramatica, which was the height of insult. And hey, if
you look at the diagnoses you can see that I obviously have problems
socially as well! It's incredibly difficult for me to meet new people and
socialize! And I, too, use the internet as a crutch to meet new people. I
still don't take it so seriously as to make legal threats when someone's
being mean to me. I either STOP REPLYING or be mean back to them. And I
don't keep arguments going on weeks after they've been dead. Listen to this. It doesn't matter what the problems you experience are. You have social instinct, and have the ability to use it. That ability may be affected by anxiety and stress but you have it nevertheless. I do not. That is a major difference and is the root reason why I am worse off than you. Your problems are practical and open to treatment. My problems are genetically inherent, and I am stuck with them for the rest of my life no matter what I do. There is no cure for a lack of social instinct once an Aspie is beyond a teenager. It's all practical experience - and experiences like this one is a negative of big proportions because I'm learning nothing except more hating. And I've enough of that IRL as well as on the Net to last me a life time and it still doesn't stop thanks to inconsiderate twits like you and LJ who won't put their foot down and stop the hate. I'm done
with this. I'm not defending my decisions anymore to you and I've now
finally said what I've wanted to say for a DAMN long time. This is MY
journal and I don't have to answer to YOU for what I do on it. Yes you do, because you allowed the violation of Live Journal's TOS on your journal. It's a fact, and nothing you say will change that. And
something else about us Aspies. We WILL have the last word. So I suggest
you shut up first, because if you don't I'll just keep on going. Because I
know I have done nothing wrong unprovoked. Whether or not I have provoked
is another matter but under those circumstances the other person (in this
case Jeremy) is just as guilty. As a demonstration of her lack of understanding - and probably a touch of poor comprehension as well - she ignored the last point and responded again. That resulted in another response from me; I'm not
using any of my disorders as an excuse for "not taking action." You completely missed my point. I said you should fight to be yourself, not play another person's game. I'm not
looking for your [beep!]ing sympathy. I could give a [oops!] less. I never gave it, because you don't deserve it. I'm making
it clear that even though I have all of this [oops!] wrong with me I still
don't make excuses for my behavior LIKE YOU DO. What - there's no such word as provocation? Oh very good! I don't
whine discrimination everytime someone's mean to me LIKE YOU DO. You should start then. It creates change than benefits EVERYONE. And silences the intolerant. And I mean act as opposed to whine (which I never did for the record). I don't go
running to the authorities because OH NOEZ SOMEONE MADE A REFERENCE TO MY
DISORDERZ AND THIS EQUALS DISCRIMINATION EVEN THOUGH THEY DIDN'T EVEN KNOW
I HAD THEM!! That's because you've been brainwashed to play another person's game. Be yourself - if you have the courage to! I don't get
off on being a victim. I don't let myself fall victim to someone even if
they DO attack me for my disorders (which many wouldn't know I have anyway
because I make it a point not to tell most people I meet first off). I only claim being the victim when it's fact. As far as "letting myself" fall victim - when one has social restrictions that becomes inevitable when one is dealing with intolerant prats like you and Jeremyyyyyyyy. I don't go
around telling everyone I meet that I'm bipolar/borderline/bulimic/have
PTSD/what the [beep!] ever first off expecting their sympathy and
exceptions. I don't expect special treatment. I don't WANT special
treatment. I want to acheive things on MY OWN MERIT. Stupid girl. You won't succeed because you have those restrictions. That's why I told you to stop playing another person's game. It will turn you into a sheep, and the sooner you realise that the better. If I'm being
a manipulative bitch and the disorder plays a part in my being a
manipulative bitch, I don't want you to rationalize my behavior with my
disorder. I want to be treated like anyone else who is being a
manipulative bitch. And guess who's pulling the strings. Not you. Jeremyyyyyyyy. He's playing you like a guitar - and it's no wonder when it's between the sheets (yeah I said it again - and don't deny it!) I know that
even though I have these things it's still possible to become a productive
member of society (as it is with asperger's), I just have to work harder
at it. WRONG! Being a productive member of society requires understanding and tolerance. I'm getting none of that. They expect me to play the same game I'm telling you NOT to play. I'm not doing it, because it will kill me. I've already brushed too close to a nervous breakdown once, and it's not happening again. It'll do the same to you eventually. Unfair?
Maybe, but life is not fair. I don't pity myself for having these things.
I DON'T DEFINE MYSELF BY MY PSYCHIATRIC PROBLEMS. Whether you like it or not, it's a part of you. Accept it instead of fighting it - then you just might understand! You on the
other hand do, and by doing this you contribute to the stigma surrounded
by people with mental illnesses. THAT'S why you piss me off, and dammit,
I'm going to say something about it, especially since I have to deal with
the stigma! You don't have to deal with it for the rest of your life, little girl - and don't you forget it. Besides, ignoring anyone's differences and expecting them to play a game than one can't is the very reason (with a few extras) the World Trade Towers got bombed! Now you think about that! Start showing respect for people's differences instead of being an intolerant little bitch. That is
bull[oops!]! Yes your genes may play a part but asperger's can still be
treated, even in adulthood; you'd just rather whine about it! Wrong, and that's a medical fact. Not just something that I'm saying. When an adult is DXed with Aspergers without ANY treatment during childhood - there is no possibility of adjustment. I've seen it in other Aspie adults - and my medical certificate says "not amenable to treatment". The ONLY chance is if the majority of an Aspie's life experience is positive. But if that's the case then there's no need for an adjustment. Mine has been majority negative - and without closure also. And fights like this one with you and Jeremyyyyyy don't help. The original diagnosis in 1997 has been confirmed three times with the same "no treatment possible" tag. Again - medical fact. Bipolar
disorder has a genetic factor as well! Don't try arguing psych with me,
and don't make half assed claims, because I WILL chew you the [beep!] out!
If you were full blown autistic, I might sympathize. Autism, Aspergers - what's difference? It's all Autistic Spectrum. Don't be a hypocrite. And manic depression is NOT genetic by the way! The only thing that you have that might be is the personality disorder. But it's a very general term which says nothing either way. There you go
again, using your disorder as an excuse to be an asshat. You're a disgrace
to people with asperger's who actually try to make something of
themselves. And the more you keep replying with the idiocy that you're
replying with, the more I'm going to just reply back because you make this
too damn fun. Then this WILL go on forever. Someone will stop, and I know who it'll be. You. I'm not using it as an excuse. It's a reason. And if anyone is being the "asshat" it's you, and I know it. That's why I'm not stopping until I get the message through that thick skull of yours. It's called justice. I'm not
siding with anyone. As I said before, I've looked through the dates, AND
the times of the threads. Maybe you'd like to do the same, since you
probably have nothing better to do, and do it totally objectively as I
did. Both parties played a part in the [oops!]storm, and I'm not blaming
either side more than the other. Yes you are. You're blaming me and Mel. Don't deny it. You didn't raise a finger to help Mel by banning your bed buddy. Freezing the threads was a nothing response - and cowardly as well. Protect your friends, little girl, and you might just win some respect! That's all I was doing until I was provoked. I argued with him, until he started mocking me. The mockery was the provocation. ...well if
you're going to use the "he provoked me!" argument - it goes both ways!
It only takes one person to start it - and that wasn't me! BTW - I
think it's funny that you deleted your comments. I did that
because I am wiping out my existence on LJ. I do not want my name
associated with the website any longer because of their clear refusal to
uphold their TOS and allow bullying on their journals. All my posts are
now history - except a handful on another person's journal (who I won't
name because he is not involved in this) because I can't delete them as he
has programmed his journal that way. And the anonymous posts I put on
Fireuzer's journal after I deleted my LJ. You'd think after all that she would have got the message, but she didn't - so on it went. This time it was brief; Phil, you
are one of the dumbest, most dense people I've ever had the misfortune of
coming into contact with. Pot - Kettle - Black However, I
will provide sources to prove you wrong about your "hopeless" condition.
I'm a psych major. Don't go claiming things that people have half-assed
told you and try to pass them off as fact. I know a hell of a lot more
about this stuff than you do (obviously), and I will kick your ass in an
argument about it. You know nothing, little girl. You can throw every single biased theory at me that you like. It is not the same as practical experience. I've seen psychs with majors AND experience in MEETING people like me. Some of them don't listen and stick to the theory like you do. They are the quacks of this world. Then there are those who listen and learn and seek to understand. Those are the ones who know what they are doing and are able to come up with more accurate DX's. You can not
compete with someone who has the practical experience that you will never
ever have, and can only imitate by listening and learning. Which right now
- you're not. I dread the day - if it comes - that this girl starts practising in psychiatry. I have no doubt she will be one of the still existing quacks who mis-diagnose ASD's as schizophrenia. Unless she has an experience that makes her realise just how wrong she was. She delivered the details to which I responded thus; Medication - None has worked for me. Skills Training - I'll quote what you've put here; I often tell parents and teachers that the individual needs to learn body language as an adult learns a foreign language. This is correct. Body language is something that I do OK with luckily. The individual with Asperger’s must learn concrete rules for eye contact, social distance and the use of slang. Eye contact is something that I have always worked on, but have never been able to maintain it on a consistent basis. This is something that I have been conscious of since my 1997 diagnosis. Social distance? Sorry - that one is right over my head (another example of poor social understanding I suspect!) Slang - I use slang all the time, but guess what! 99 times out of 100 no one understands what I'm talking about, and ......THIS IS IMPORTANT SO LISTEN UP...... they don't explain why! That is a CRUCIAL missing factor. How can I learn things that I know nothing about when people like YOU don't take the time and the patience to explain. I can learn nothing from mockery which is why hate it (take note, Jeremyyyyyyyy) Global empathy is difficult, but they can learn to look for specific signs that indicate another individual’s emotional state. Correct, and that's something else I've worked on. But there are still glaring gaps that have no explanation (see above). Social skills are often best practiced in a small group setting. Such groups serve more than one function. They give people a chance to learn and practice concrete rules of interpersonal engagement. They may also be a way for the participant to meet others like himself. Individuals with Asperger’s do best in groups with similar individuals. If the group consists of street-wise, antisocial peers, the Asperger’s individual may retreat into himself or be dominated by the other members. Antisocial. Take note, bitch. YOU are being an antisocial person with me - and I am working to resist the retreat in order to get you to start THINKING instead of listening to that nutcase Jeremyyyyyyy. And resist the domination as well. Individuals with Asperger’s Disorder may have trouble with a therapist who insists that they make an early intense emotional contact. The therapist may need to proceed slowly and avoid more emotional intensity than the patient can handle. There again, you are going about this all wrong. How about taking this advice yourself rather than carrying on like a two bob watch! Concrete, behavioral techniques often work best. That's rubbish because there are NO concrete techniques that can work in ALL social situations. Play therapy can be helpful in several circumstances. The therapist may use it to teach way of interaction. The therapist may also use play to lower emotional tension if the therapist senses that a more direct conversation is too threatening. However, play should not be an end in itself. Patients with Asperger's often need direct, concrete instruction on social interaction. Adults and children may do well in group therapy. Support groups can also be helpful. All this assumes that Aspies can get by on a handful of simple techniques. It's a good platform to start from for teenagers with AS, but as an Aspie gets older - life experience takes over. And when the techniques don't work, what then? Learning new ones will just restart the same process over again, and it will similarly fail. Every person is different throughout the world. Giving these basic instruction do not tell the whole social story to the point where as Aspie is able to function for life. Getting them when they are young is workable. Not getting any until the age of 32 (as I was when I was diagnosed) makes it impossible. Particularly when I had already had many bad experiences for which there was no reasonable explanation given. Regarding the difference between Autism and Aspergers I never said the two were exactly the same! I said they were similar (both on the Autistic Spectrum). Differences exist primarily in the degree of impairment. For example, while an individual with autism may experience a delay in, or total lack of speech, an individual with Asperger's can not possess a "clinically significant general delay" in language. Language was never an issue here. Social interaction is the issue. A second distinction made by the DSM-IV concerns cognitive ability. While some individuals with autism experience mental retardation, by definition a person with Asperger's can not possess a "clinically significant" cognitive delay. This is not to imply that all individuals with autism also have mental retardation. Some do and some do not, but a person with Asperger's possesses an average to above average intelligence. By
definition - and practical fact are two different things. Whilst there
isn't a cognitive delay in Aspergers in the basics, the cognitive
direction is different because of the lack of social instinct. It makes
logic a far more strenuous tool to overcome the difficulty - a factor that
is made easier in theory by the intelligence level. But again it goes back
to life experience, which is the key to it all working. Aside from that it was more of the same - and as I mockingly said at the time; Yup yup yup yup yup (best "Happy Days" impersonation) DURR You
stated that I was being a hypocrite because I told you about my problems
for sympathy, which was hardly the case. I didn't want it. Learn how to
read. Pot - Kettle - Blaack (Sheesh that's becoming a handy phrase in all this isn't it?) WAH WAH WAH
I'M NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR MY ACTIONS/WORDS IT'S ALWAYS EVERYONE ELSE'S
FAULT BECAUSE ASPERGER'S MAKES ME INCOMPETENT EVEN THOUGH THERE ARE PEOPLE
WITH IT WHO ARE FULLY COMPETENT EVERYONE PROVOKES ME WAHHHH WAH WAHH
NOTHING'S EVER MY FAULT. Bull[oops!]. You said it all in the last word. That whole comment was a load of cow manure. I have
tolerance for people with mental disorders; I have little tolerance for
just all around intellectual airheads who use their mental disorder as an
excuse for everything. I do NOT use it as an excuse for everything. I use it as a REASON when I am required to, and for no other reason. And you have no tolerance for mental disorders. HAHA! You're
calling ME stupid. That's kind of ironic. I'll bet you don't even know the meaning of the word, blondie. Better re-colour your hair to avoid that stereotype! Really?
Because my damn-near-straight-A college transcript would tell you that I
AM succeeding. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! I can tell you through experience that whatever grades you get in school mean ZERO when it comes to life! Go into the real world with that attitude and it will eat you up and spit you out! What the
[beep!] are you talking about? Sorry, I call idiocy and whininess when I
see it. Jeremy has nothing to do with it. He's got PLENTY to do with it! You are doing exactly what he did - mocking me. Two peas in a pod I'd say, and he's doing all the leading as his comments on these messages proves! Again, more
excuses, everyone else is mean to me it's always their fault they should
cater to me, WAH WAHH WAHH. Yes they should - it's written into human rights law. Got a major in international law now have we? LOL. So
bipolar disorder along with numerous personality disorders just go away,
eh? You're an idiot. Yes, I do have to deal with this for the rest of my
life. No matter how many medications they put me on or how much therapy I
go to I'm still going to have to deal with effects of my disorders. They
just make the effects easier to deal with. There is no cure for ANY
psychiatric illness but they can be TREATED (just like asperger's, at any
age!). Aspergers as an adult can NOT be treated! And you will find entering real life after school that you will run into serious problems trying to play the "normal" person's game. I tried - and it nearly killed me as I said before. No, Muslim
extremists were the very reason the WTC towers got FLOWN INTO (they
weren't bombed, dip[oops!]). Now you're not only making excuses for
yourself - you making excuses for TERRORISTS (the very people you claim to
be so loud against)! NICE! I don't go on shooting sprees when someone
ignores my differences. The planes were flying bombs you idiot! I am giving reasons for the terrorists original thought patterns. I am not for one second justifying their actual actions. But I will say this. If I was that sort of person right now I WOULD grab and gun and take care of business. That's what happens when people are intolerant and discriminatory - you get a reaction when all else fails. Remember that! It's not
that you can't be treated, it's that you refuse to be treated. Can't - not won't. Here's the full quote from my DX; As indicated the condition is lifelong and is not amenable to treatment Someone with
asperger's is not NEARLY as bad off as someone with autism! And someone with all your problems is not NEARLY as bad off as someone with Aspergers! No, one
can't be positive that it's totally genetic, but it does seem to run in
families which SUGGESTS that it is genetic. One can't be positive that
asperger's is genetic either, so don't go spitting [oops!] out having no
clue what you are talking about. Who's spitting out the cow manure? Manic depression comes from families with issues, and nowhere else. Aspergers is indiscriminant and can not be defined by practical family conditions. That's the difference between the two, which makes Aspergers the more likely to be genetic. BTW - a thesaurus gives SIMILAR meaning words, not the same meaning words! You don't
have a message to "get through." You're just being a whiny little bitch.
And justice? Please. I do have a message to get through - and you are putting your fingers in your ears like all intolerant little pieces of crap. Because you don't want to listen, and more important learn. BTW, my
sources are not biased. I got them from very credible educational
institutions as well as mental health institutions who research this
[oops!] and DEAL WITH PEOPLE with these disorders. So you can't use that
defense. I've also met people with asperger's who live as very productive
members of society who would also see you as a disgrace. Those people with Aspergers would have been diagnosed as children or as teenagers at the latest. I doubt you would have come across anyone older than about 25 to 30, unless you lucked out with someone who had actually managed to get all the answers they needed to live that life. I haven't, and I'm still pursuing them for little result. And bitches like you don't help. If those people knew how you were behaving in here right now they'd label YOU as the disgrace - not me. And you are quite happy to interpret what you've been taught to your own advantage aren't you? So much for your so called lack of bias! You're an
idiot. I'm right. You're wrong. That's all there is to it. Only a fourteen year old who thinks she knows it all would say something like that. Act your age. Come back and see me when you're 40. And guess what - you'll be all apologetic because it will probably take that long to realise that you were in fact WRONG. Live my life before criticising it. Everybody is different. No exceptions. Oh - and another note. You know what else you're doing? Solidifying further any bad social habits I may have. See, I know I'm not perfect. But I do know that a good habit is to resist the sort of bullying that you and the Peruvian Personal Computer Pervert have engaged in. You think about that before responding again, hmmmm? You're a
disgrace. Again: Pot -
Kettle - Black I thought I was sending a loud and clear message to her with that paragraph about bullying, but the bitch continued her tirade and in the process showed her lack of intelligence as well as her intolerance. So much so that I decided to start with another mockery - Ladies and Gentleman, boys and girls, children of all ages. This blog proudly brings to you again - the heavyweight DIMWIT of the worlddddddddddd...........(thank you, DX!); That whole
comment is the way you sound. Good - that's all I would expect from an intolerant little girl like you. Reason is a
synonym for excuse. Did we not already establish that? And look, you
[beep!]ing waste of oxygen, I have mental DISORDERS. I don't have
tolerance for whiny bitches. Intolerance is not a mental disorder, so you are the one making excuses - and are therefore whining. I'm still
going to HAVE A JOB that isn't [oops!] when I get out BECAUSE I'M GOING TO
SCHOOL, GOING TO GET INTO GRAD SCHOOL BECAUSE I HAVE GOOD GRADES, AND WILL
BE TRAINED FOR A JOB MAKING MY OWN MONEY AND NOT LIVING OFF OF THE STATE,
BECAUSE I'M NOT A COMPLETE AND TOTAL [beep!]TARD, which is more than I can
say for you, eh? Say that when you find how hard it is to play another person's game, and end up out on the street without a job! It'll happen - I guarentee it! I'm mocking
you because you deserve it. Jeremy didn't tell me to do it. You are an
idiot. I don't like idiots. Kthnx. You're copying him - which is exactly what he wants and you know it. And it saves him the trouble as well. Dumbass,
it's not an employer's job to hire you when you're unqualified just
because you have asperger's. I am perfectly qualified to do the job. They won't hire me because of my lack of social instinct. Even a junior minister in Australia's federal government went on the record and said this; If they don't have the social skills, I will not hire them. No matter what the qualifications or experience in the field. Explain that one, double dumb arse! LOL. I'm
taking this from RESEARCH that people WHO ARE EDUCATED (unlike you!) do
that has BEEN CONSISTENT OVER TIME! Sorry - all you gave me was the theory that quacks rely on. Ever heard of Tony Attwood? If you don't
have any sources for this claim, I'm not going to believe you, so quit
saying things half-hazardly without sources. Well, I don't believe you, because you've already proven that your currency is lies. That's fine. Believe the lie. It's all you believe in so why should I listen to you if you aren't interested in the truth? Besides I
already know that I'm right because I have studied this time and time
again and I've even provided you with sources. Knowing the theory and experiencing it first hand are two different things! How many times do I have to say that to get it through your thick skull? Until you
give me credible sources I'm not taking anything you say as fact. You're
spitting out complete and utter [oops!]. Bipolar disorder is just as
likely to be genetic as Asperger's. Quit trying to find excuses for
refusal to get treatment. I'm not going to justify myself to you - because how can I source first hand experience? Knowledge that is in my memory. I've seen someone with both manic depression and AS - and the family was as dysfunctional as the day is long. My family is fine. The only source is my website - and you've already thrown that in your bin so why bother? I was already in the work force (yes, I have worked BTW!) when you were born, little girl. You can not match my life experience - which on the Internet IS just words. If you can't accept words, then you just proved that you have fingers in your ears. You haven't
given me a reason to believe anything you say. ALL YOU'RE DOING IS
SPITTING OUT WORDS WITH NO PROOF - NOTHING TO BACK YOU UP. Besides I still
know I'm right. But please, go ahead and try to find credible sources
anyway. I would expect that from someone who believes lies, and doesn't believe the truth. Actually I
have an uncle with Asperger's who is quite a bit older than 30. How old is he? And how old was he when he was diagnosed? And what was his life like before he was diagnosed? You're
keeping this going! All you've gotta do is stop replying! And I quote from an earlier post of mine, "And something else about us Aspies. We WILL have the last word". I'm
interpreting it as it is. It just happens to be to my own advantage
BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT AND I CAN EASILY PROVE
EVERYTHING YOU SAY WRONG WITH SOURCES. In your own mind only. Everyone I've shown this conversation to who know me and UNDERSTAND me are laughing their heads off at you - and Jeremyyyyyyyy. I even invited one - who has an LJ journal - to throw in her two bits, but she doesn't have time with a wedding coming up and a house move and a few battles of her own. I don't
think I know it all. Research institutions know more than you. I agree
with research institutions when it comes to this topic because they know
more than you. Therefore I'm right for all intensive purposes. Only a fourteen year old know it all would make that claim. Once you get some life experience you'll realise how little use in practical terms your research was. Then again - maybe you won't given how perfect you think you are! If I'm
wrong, then big research institutions who, you know, RESEARCH THIS STUFF,
must also be wrong...and you, who only go by your own experiences, are
right? Okay, sure. You do know cults are formed by crazy old people who
claim to know the truth about everything from their own experiences
despite going against everything science has damn-near-proven, right? Cults? Oh give me a break! What a classic over reaction. This is all about YOUR INTERPRETATION! And you accuse me of making excuses? What a laugh! Oh
christ...go cry some more, will you? I don't feel sorry for you. You are
again making more excuses for yourself to keep being an idiot and pitying
yourself instead of getting treatment. So how about helping me out? Oh no, you're too busy having fun at the expense of a disabled person. The height of insult, and more proof that you and the Peruvian Personal Computer Pervert are two peas in a pod. And your refusal to understand just adds to the issue. I'm not the one who's crying. You are, because you aren't winning the argument and deep down you know it and are too cowardly to admit it. If your
condition is so hopeless and even doctors agree that there's no possible
treatment available, why exactly were you on medication? It was a trial - and it was way before I was DXed with Aspergers BTW. The psychs who really do know about Aspergers knew that if there was any treatment for me, it lay in the behaviour of others, and their efforts to help me adjust. And past experiences that were already affecting me had to be dealt with before I could move on. There is no medication for that. And for the record I am doing my darndest to do that. But I need the co-operation of others and right now I'm not getting it. My allies are just as frustrated over that as I am. It's not a
lay person's job to play therapist. That's why you go to therapy. Wrong. It's the lay person's job to explain their actions and answer questions, and that - whether you like it or not - IS part of the therapy. I am
thinking, for myself. Jeremy has not told me anything to think about you.
I seriously do just think you are really [beep!]ing stupid and everything
you say supports my hypothesis. Only because you are interpreting it your way - with blinkers firmly entrenched in place. Blinkers that were put on by Jeremyyyyyyyy, with the way he behaved towards me (and Mel!) I copied and
pasted it to show you that there is treatment available for adults,
dip[oops!]. It's not MY job to try and be YOUR therapist. See what I said above, little girl! Mind you - I won't be listening to you because I don't respect liars. Sources Personal experience! A bunch of bastards called Australia Post (who employed me from 1985 to 1991) You said,
"What's difference?" (sic) You might as well have said they were the same.
Your convenient interpretation deliberately taking what I said out of context. Sources! You
can't just spit things out and expect me to believe them! If you can't
find any...you're probably wrong! Obviously you have no respect for my personal experience. Intolerant bitch! I've just
shown you treatment options THAT WORK. In 1997 they didn't know as much
about Asperger's as they do now. It was only included in the DSM in 1994
(as one of those sites stated!)! Show me a source that shows someone who has experienced something close to what I have, and how they managed to get out of it in full detail - and I'll believe you. And I'll bet you can't! You know why? Because there isn't one, as everyone's experience is different. That being
said, I'm done with this. Nothing you've said has any validity, and it's
pointless to try and reason with someone as intellectually inept as you.
And I've actually got things to do, unlike you. I have things to do as well, but I was happy to make time to try and get through to you. It was a wasted effort given the lies you prefer to believe. Have fun living a false life. And don't come crying back to me when it all falls apart as I expect it to when your disorders start interfering in what you think is a perfect life. They aren't interfering yet, but they will. AS didn't really start messing around with my life until I hit the work place! It will be the same for you. Have fun
being a worthless piece of [oops!]. And the exact same thing to you, little girl. Grow up. (I wonder if
she really means it? If she responds again, it will have me wondering if
in fact she may have AS as well!) At this point in time I knew that Amber didn't respect personal experience over written theory - and that is common amongst the intolerant. Along with her persistent lying - which would probably include her so called uncle. I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't even have one to be honest. And she did respond again - with the most pathetic piece of junk she could have produced! Kill
yourself. Remove yourself from the gene pool. I'm dead serious. I'm not
responding to your inane bull[oops!] because it's useless. Just kill
yourself NOW! Relieve Australian taxpayers of your burden you [beep!]ing
fat lazy ass whiny piece of [oops!]! DO IT! My response at the time was more than appropriate; Congratulations, Amber. You have just committed the most heinous crime you could in this context. One NEVER EVER tells another person to kill themselves. Once a person hits that level, they've hit the highest possible level of offence to any normal human being. And that smacked of desperation as well - knowing that she'd lost the argument she went to the bottom of the barrel in insults. She has no idea, and she knows it, and she can't cope with the fact. When faced with someone who has personal experience in something, she can't handle it. She is DESPERATE for sources on the Internet, otherwise she doesn't believe it. Even I'm not THAT reliant on the Net for crying out loud! A reality check is definitely needed for her - that I have no doubt about! Amber said
this will be the last mention of it. She's gone against that before now,
so who wants to believe her? She's a born liar as she has already proved.
As it turned out - that was the end of that. This whole thing was recorded for posterity as proof of her intolerance. In recent times she shut her LJ off to those who were not on her friend list, but before that I noticed that an article on her had been created at Encyclopedia Dramatica. Now I'm not a fan of the site (as the article on here proves) but this was pretty funny - and accurate to boot. Sadhe Sati AKA Amber Cody is not Aspie Friendly. |
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