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After a lot of talk on the SA Footy Forum after my departure from there in the past week, I felt it was needed to post a final message this morning (May 13). I'm reproducing it here, just in case some members decide to come over and join up and want to comment on it. And just a note, the title of the thread I posted this on was "PhilG unmasked!" referring to who I think is a Sydney based motivational speaker! OK, I am making one more post here in order to refute a number of incorrect observations here, and also back up some correct ones. And this post will be a long one, but it needs to be. First - on this notion that if people disagree with me, the cow manure hits the fan automatically; Not true. When it does, it's only because it seems to me that the other person is refusing to listen. Not just not agreeing, refusing to listen (or understand - which in certain circumtances comes down to the same thing). This was certainly the case with Dissident on the Umpires thread. Tassie was on that same thread and he handled it a lot better - and I put that down to him actually being an umpire whereas to my knowledge Dissident is not. If anyone has the time to look through my posts, they will see I am capable of coping with people disagreeing with me. Psyber is a good example of this on the political board. A number of discussions on a variety of subjects have also drawn this reaction from different people. There are exceptions of course - and they are the subjects where I have extremely strong views. Smoking of course is the example most on this board will remember - I have absolutely no sympathy for it at all and never will, and I will always jump on anyone trying to evoke even a remote note of sympathy for them. It's a filthy disgusting habit that has no reediming features whatsoever - and it kills as well. What happened to Fitzroy is another one - cheifly because they killed at least four grass roots clubs in the process (Fairfield, Collingwood District, Thornbury and Canterbury/North Balwyn) through their grabbing of sponsors money over and above what the local market could handle. Roylion knows this from his previous experience with me on Big Footy, and he sought to milk it for all it was worth - in order to attack me, not defend Fitzroy (contrary to his claims otherwise). It is Wedgie's refusal to ban Roylion that caused me to decide to leave this board. I'll just address a few quotes - and BTW I laughed when I saw this thread in detail at the beginning! I had no idea there was another Phil G! Seriously - doesn't that constitute a troll? If Dissident would just read the article on Lima PCP (he's an Aspie Enemy) he'll see that all I was doing in that respect was responding in kind. As I said in the linked article - he can dish it out but he can't take it. Seems there are a few people who don't agree with his comments (or people who he doesn't like) around on different sites. The "Sweet Smell of Success" article was about more than just a disagreement. That was internet stalking for two years! Very different to just a disagreement! but the Enemies section was a bit weak why document every person that you have had an internet biff with and spit the dummy altogether Actually, no. Not everyone I've had an internet biff with is there. No one else here (except for Roylion of course) is getting one. I've had a lot of internet biffs. Most of them however have nothing to do with Aspergers (Dissident is a great example again - that was about my umpiring experience - which doesn't make him an Aspie Enemy). Just on that - an Aspie Enemy is someone who shows direct contempt for an inherent aspect of my disability. For the most part with the Internet, that has been my inherently difference thought processes. With Roylion it was my rote memory in particular for example (which he back flipped on as I mentioned in detail on one of my more recent updates). The way he has a god-like view on everything and unless you agree, you're wrong. if you come on here and act like a wanker, you're a wanker. I covered these above - and below with DW's quote. but my symapthy is lessened to those who use it as a constant excuse. Reason, DW, not excuse. There is a difference. What causes that is a lack of understanding. Now as mentioned it's not easy to understand. I'll be the first to say that. But when people give up out of sheer "he's a wanker" type thinking it's not just people like me with the problem. I think that's what Aerie, Strawb and Rising were all getting at - and I thank them for that as well. Dissident needs to understand that to me - he was behaving like the very wanker he was accusing me of being. A real ladies man our Phil! That's a remark taken out of context that needs to be corrected quick smart. It came from the "Let's just delete the last few days" article about a former friend and fellow Aspie who has it worse than I do. I put a lot of time, effort and money (some of it my wife's) to help her cope with being an Aspie and the family pressures. And for what? To have her try and pull me down to her level of functioning, when I was trying to pull her up to mine so she could cope better. The bottom line seems to be with him is that you have to agree with him. Incorrect. And this is something else I covered above. The Wikipedia article on Aspergers has been referenced and I thoroughly support it. A few quotes came up about this. Brent quoted the article and bolded "all-absorbing interest in a single topic dominated their conversations." This is a reflection on an Aspie's special interests - and I think everyone here knows that number one on that hit parade is football. But as my Wiki reflects, I do have a lot of others. It has been reflected here as well with wrestling and politics. Some can use their intellect to correct for the lack of emotional empathy and connection, and some cannot. This is an excellent quote - and it's right. For me both apply. Sometimes I can - sometimes I can't. It depends on the other person. If I can learn something from them that I can use to make that correction, and can fit it in with what I can accept through my own experience - then I do it. Of course, if the person doesn't help and is rude about it, such a correction becomes impossible. I'm on autopilot when someone is rude to me - and that is to be rude right back. I'd like to know though, is it actually possible to try and reduce the capacity of the condition? Within oneself - no it's not. It entirely depends on the capacity of others. See what I said about corrections above. I'll finish with this; You can't keep signing off the various public forums and retreating in to your own site to avoid people disagreeing with you. As stated I did not depart because of a simple disagreement. I departed because I found it neccesary in order to protect myself from the distress being caused by Roylion - and ONLY Roylion. This would have been avoided if Wedgie had booted him as I asked him to - and he did not. Roylion is a major threat to me - bigger than anyone else on this board, because of his troll style pursuance of me. As stated, he'll deny that - but he is lying. The evidence is against him (again - check the article about him on Wiki, including what I added just last night). It doesn't matter if he has "conducted himself well" in the eyes of others. The man is a legit threat to me. And if he remains - I have to go. And I have. But if Wedgie changes his mind and boots Roylion - I'll be back in a heartbeat. But if he hasn't done it by now, he won't. That's it - I'm out of here. Thanks again to those who understood, and any apologies issued to me on this thread are accepted. And most of you are welcome to join my Wiki (as Rising has already done). One of the replies at the time of the posting of this message was from member Dutchy asking why I take myself so seriously. I have to. It's called self defence, and it's the only way I can learn. I also got a PM from another member expressing his support, but also asking me to stay. I explained to him why I couldn't and repeated my invite to join this Wiki. I hope I am not put in a position where I have to update this article constantly. I was already losing enough time updating the Roylion article on top of the work on Fore Sam updates. I have found another forum elsewhere on the Internet and hopefully it will prove to be a safe place. I just hope Roylion doesn't follow me there. If he does he'll prove that not only is he after me, he'll also be presenting me with a possible case of Internet Stalking - for which I already have one success as previously mentioned. One update - and hopefully the only one. I forgot to mention that I deleted the majority of my posts (a long job) which is why my ID was on the online user list. That wasn't lurking. I can "lurk" without logging in. That job was completed on May 17 and I defy them to prove I've logged in since then (I haven't). I edited my last post to the following; Wedgie - Owner that approves of trolls (Gutless) Good bye, SA Footy! The first three lines went onto my signature (which meant it was on all the posts I removed before the sig was removed). And Dogwatcher calls me gutless. His post was more gutless than I have ever been. If he has an issue, he should come here and express it. But I'm sure he'll do it in a way that defies the rules here, and he probably knows it as well. Hence his cowardice. Why post it on SA Footy? IF ANYONE FROM SA FOOTY WANTS TO TALK TO ME - HERE I AM Oh - and I deleted my posts to remove my contributions to the forum. That's not re-writing history. That's removing my presence from the forum as far as I can go for the purposes of self defence. If I could, I would have removed a lot more. Wedgie showed some sense - deleting the thread entirely to remove the abuse. I just wish he'd remove Roylion! And not just for trolling. He was stalking me and Wedgie wouldn't do a thing about it. |
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